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Is it because I’m too young? 17 y/o with 3 year relationship. I hate seeing him upset when he can’t relieve me. Please.
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In: Women's Health | 2018-02-21
Perhaps you aren’t quite ready for it, and you’re indulging in it because of peer pressure. It happens to many of us, and there’s nothing to be anxious about – unless you’re afraid your bf might dump you for another. And if he does, he wasn’t worthy of your body in the first place.
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Well, When we do third base things, it always feels unimaginably good, but eventually, its so overwhelming and I can’t take it anymore and make him stop. I just can’t climax. I feel like I’ve tried everything.
You’re not too young. Maybe while he’s trying to pleasure you, you should reach down and do it yourself. Or experiment with him and see if different positions feel better for you.
Certainly your reason for wanting to seems to be only him. That is not good enough – you have to want to for yourself. Not so much age is a factor but maturity could be. You might not have enough confidence in yourself and what you are capable of which sometimes only comes with experience. Do you come to orgasm readily when masturbating? If so then you CAN orgasm. If not then maybe you are not even interested in doing that yourself. Could be you need to become more sensitive, could be because he is not giving you enough time, foreplay, or the right kind of stimulation. If you feel “overwhelmed” with pleasure then you are getting there and the fact that you make him stop would indicate possibly you are afraid of letting go or letting him that degree of power over you. We have to give ourselves up to what we are feeling for it to happen.
Could be many other reasons too – mental, psychological, physical, social.
Maybe he is more interested in himself than you.