Is it because I’m too young? 17 y/o with 3 year relationship. I hate seeing him upset when he can’t relieve me. Please.
Certainly your reason for wanting to seems to be only him. That is not good enough – you have to want to for yourself. Not so much age is a factor but maturity could be. You might not have enough confidence in yourself and what you are capable of which sometimes only comes with experience. Do you come to orgasm readily when masturbating? If so then you CAN orgasm. If not then maybe you are not even interested in doing that yourself. Could be you need to become more sensitive, could be because he is not giving you enough time, foreplay, or the right kind of stimulation. If you feel “overwhelmed” with pleasure then you are getting there and the fact that you make him stop would indicate possibly you are afraid of letting go or letting him that degree of power over you. We have to give ourselves up to what we are feeling for it to happen.
Could be many other reasons too – mental, psychological, physical, social.